Ah, bad timing... Like asking someone who is adopted about finding their "real" parents - in front of the people who raised her since she was six weeks old?
(oh wait- yeah, that would be my husband. Brilliant, but sometimes dear GOD! Stupid... I knew better when I was four, for heavens sake... )
But you were asking about kinks, darling. Sorry... I shall think on it.

Actually, how about being woken up in an amorous manner? Always works for Sir Tactless... (TMI, certainly, but.. Hey.. )
Personal fave- outside with moonlight, preferably with some old fertile ritual meaning attatched. I'm Salem born, I can't help being a bit of a witch! ;-)